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Why We Hate New York

By Thinking Man’s Conservative, Feb. 12, 2012

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I hate to break it to you, New York, but as a friend and part-time resident, I feel I need to tell you that people don’t like you very much.  I’m not talking about the bean-eating Brahmin of Boston.  It’s middle-America, people from Omaha, Des Moines, Memphis, Mobile, Kansas City.  These people don’t like you.

I’m sure you’re asking why these people don’t like you. You’re the place where many of their relatives, distant or close, first landed in America. You’re the city of hopes and dreams. If you can make it there, you can make it anywhere…I imagine a young, upstart Sinatra singing this, looking across the Hudson, with ambition and determination, from the place where my apartment now stands, but I digress… You think of yourself as the personification (citification?) of the American dream.

So why do people mock you? Why does Newt Gingrich refer to you as the city of high-rise living, subway-riding elites?  To anyone who has ridden a NYC subway, or seen the high rise projects in the Bronx, I’m sure you know the kind of elites to which Newt refers. Why the vitriol?

Why? Because you seem out of touch with how the rest of America lives – the real America – the America of Norman Rockwell paintings, Jimmy Stewart movies, the America of wheat, corn, cotton, automobiles and strip malls.

You don’t invite your neighbors over for Sunday BBQ. You’re obnoxious. You talk too loud and too fast. You have way too many people. You can’t drive. You’re pompous.

More importantly, you’re successful. You’re ambitious (refer back to Sinatra). While the rest of America is losing hope in ever realizing the American dream, you get up every morning and keep chasing it. And you sometimes get there. You don’t know what it’s like to have to give up on the dream.

To anyone who is concerned about this election cycle, understanding this sentiment is key to understanding one of the most powerful forces that shaping the race. It’s not really Democrat versus Republican, or progressive versus conservative…it’s urban versus non-urban.

New York is just an archetype of this sentiment.  This sentiment exists, admittedly to a lesser degree, in my hometown of Charlotte. The rift between those who live in the core of Charlotte, many of whom are ambitious, successful professionals working Uptown (our version of downtown), and those who live outside of the city, is huge, and widening. The way these people vote follows predictable patterns.  Not just for candidates, but on issues as well – Should we extend rail lines? Should we widen roads? How do we fix our schools?

However, as much as we dislike the cities, realistically, we should embrace them (see New York, I’m still your friend).  As we look at the plight that the Great Recession has created for so many people, our cities still offer promise. Nowhere else in America is social mobility as possible as it is in the cities. Even today, the immigrant who comes to New York with nothing more than a dream can still be successful.

Our cities are still the centers for innovation.  Innovation occurs when you put a lot of smart people together where they can build off of each others’ ideas (heck, give me and my friends an evening and a case of beer, and we’ll get America working again).

As counterintuitive as it seems, cities are some of the greenest places on Earth. As we struggle to find energy independence, we can once again look to the cities. The average city dweller uses far less energy per year than the average non-city dweller.

I know that much of the country is struggling. It’s real, and it stings. However, some politicians will try to manipulate this sentiment. They will drive a wedge between the urban centers and the rest of America. They will play on the resentment of cities to drive a traditionalist agenda which, if actually enacted, would drive us back to pre-industrial days. So, be very wary of the anti-urban, anti-“elite” rhetoric.

One more thing, come back and visit us. We’ll even have you over on Sunday for BBQ to watch the Giants.

 

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**Photo Caption: Rockwell’s Breakfast Table Political Argument from 1948 was a Saturday Evening Postcover on Oct. 30, 1948. Courtesy Harry S. Truman Library. The black-and-white photo it was taken from (right), courtesy of Norman Rockwell Museum.

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  • Chris p

    Oh don’t get me started !! lol

    I think the rest of the country can’t stand NY’ers because they think too highly of themselves..lol People all over this great country work their ass off and to listen to people act like because they lived there…grew up there, whatever that means they’re something special for the rest of their lives lol

    People from L.A. think everybody longs to be them too so NY is NOT alone. Being from the Charlotte area myself the people here work and live just as good a quality of life as anyone else because life isn’t measured on how many thousands of dollars someone paid to live in a shoebox and have zero quiet time lol It’s measured on many other wonderful things..like friendly people you encounter randomly through the course of your day. Then again someone randomly urinating on a subway car sounds more elegant to me =))

    It’s a comparative thing..and as long as NY’ers keep puffing their chest out there’s others around just as ready to tap ‘em in the gut and knock the wind out of them lol

    • http://www.bubblesdeux.com BubblesDeux

      Man, I want to marry you and have babies that look just like Stanley. ;)

      When I moved to NYC I was appalled at how arrogant NYers were/are. Every where I went, people said: Oh, you’re from…and I’m from California! And not a small city.

      Then I started to become a NYer and I realized we’re just like everyone else. We want to raise our kids in a healthy environment, we want good job opportunities and we want enough money to pay our bills and take vacations.

      The issue is that NY is NOT what people see on TV. In fact, most NYers will never, ever live that Gossip Girl looking existence and that’s okay by us. Newt’s comment is quite funny since I am sure he is much more of an elitist than most NYers I know. Maybe he should remember that sometimes.

      • Chris p

        Even if he did remember it, it’d only be briefly…he’d find somebody else to insult to distract himself from looking in the mirror :-) )

        Love you first line btw ;-) We simply can’t live in NY if we get married…I know more ridiculous conditions on my part :-D It happens often around that topic lol

        • http://www.bubblesdeux.com BubblesDeux

          I’ve thought about the terms and I’m okay with them since I’m at 20 years here. Time to boogie on out of here :)

  • http://marronedinmonkeytown.wordpress.com Kidfos

    Hmm.

    After living in a Smiths song for so long, I was desperately seeking Sinatra it seemed.

    I do kind of sorta’ get what you’re saying though. I think.

    That taking sides theory, it really is as you said. Keep one group wary of another so you don’t have to confront either of them. Realpolitik 101 if I remember correctly…

    Peace
    &
    I’d turn up. Only for the beer though.

    • http://www.bubblesdeux.com BubblesDeux

      Okay, best comment ever!

      I went to Paris with an American’s idea of what Paris is, then I found Edith Piaf and life opened up.

      Our government likes to believe it has the magic formula for the world, when in fact, we’re pre-teens playing on the world’s stage. We should be careful. Pre-teens aren’t known for their common sense.

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